Talking about the dreaded "R-word"

"Life
After Work"
by Arthur Dauria and Walter vom Saal
on WSKG Radio's OFF THE PAGE
L I V E Tuesday, January 22 at 1pm
(Rebroadcast at 7pm)
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"...we need
to start using different ways to talk about retirement that
do not carry negative images of only termination and loss.
Unfortunately the word "retirement" in our culture
does carry with it the image of stopping everything productive
and doing nothing meaningful with one's life."
--from Life After Work
"To retire" has many meanings, including the nightly
descent into darkness and unconsciousness. But even a good
night's sleep carries with it the promise of awakening to a
bright new day. To retire
from work portends a time of termination,
during which one's career skills - often honed over many years
- are suddenly disregarded as formerly fulfilling times are
replaced by boredom. But it doesn't have to be that way, and
a new book looks at retirement as a transition to a new time
of life by examining the experiences of six people, and with
useful cautionary tales and suggestions.
"Life
After Work: Six retirement stories that can change your life" was
written by two professors who realized that there are many books on financial
planning but few that address the human issues surrounding retirement. Arthur
F. Dauria is Professor and Chair of the Communications Arts Department at the
State University of New York College at Oneonta (SUCO), and Walter
vom Saal is
a Professor of Psychology (retired) at SUCO. Dr. Dauria's academic interests
encompass interpersonal communication and conflict management. Dr. vom Saal's
work includes the study of adulthood and aging and positive psychology.
Dauria
and vom Saal have collaborated for several years on addressing
issues of aging and retirement and wrote "Life After Work" to
share the retirement experiences, good and bad, of several
notable individuals. The book
profiles
- Sadie and
Bessie Delany, sisters whose accomplishments
were extraordinary at the time for two African-American
women, but
who may best be known for the books they wrote and wisdom
they shared after reaching the age of 100 (Bessie lived
to be 104,
Sadie 109). Their "retirement" years were long
and productive.
- Lee Iacocca was one of the world's top auto
executives - he headed both Ford and Chrysler - when he was
forced out
of
his job and went through a period when he found retirement
more stressful than work had ever been.
- Katherine
Hepburn was a great actress. Her work with co-star Spencer Tracy
is among the finest in film. But she and Tracy
were also close personally, and when his health began to
deteriorate Kate temporarily gave up her own career to care
for him. They
were a non-traditional couple, but they reflect a pattern
typical of male-female relationships.
- Jimmy
Carter was turned
out of office in 1980 and went through painful soul-searching
until he found new purpose
and became "a
bright shining example of actualized potential." Freed
from his earlier political constraints, President Carter
was able to pursue projects that were personally important
to him
and along the way to provide a good example even for those
stepping down from less lofty positions.
- Arthur
Ashe was
one of the world's great tennis players when a heart condition
brought his competitive days to an
end. Then
he contracted AIDS from a blood transfusion. His "retirement" experience
is sad and tragic, but it also shows how the loss of economic
function can turn someone's attention to cherished relationships
- till his final days Ashe was writing notes to his young
daughter - and "to sweep away the clutter in order
to act on what really mattered."
Dauria and vom Saal say that a good retirement will consist
of "3 R's": relationships, responsibilities and recreation.
It should be seen in terms of opportunity and personal growth
(a planned retirement is infinitely easier to deal with than
one which is forced), but there is also the advisory that "everyone
profiled in this book had to actively re-invent their retirement
as they moved through it. In fact, most of their retirements
were driven by external forces."
Walter
vom Saal and Arthur
Dauria join Bill Jaker on OFF THE PAGE to respond to listeners'
questions about planning and
living in retirement. To participate in the discussion call
during the live 1:00 PM broadcast to 888/359-9754 or post a
comment by e-mail to WSKG.Radio@Gmail.com.
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NEXT TIME: When paleontologist Warren Allmon
assumed the directorship of the Paleontological Research Institution
in Ithaca in
1992, it was merely an obscure old building housing one of
the world's biggest collections of fossils. On Tuesday, February
5th, Dr. Allmon visits OFF THE PAGE to tell about bringing
life to this record of our planet's development - including
the spectacular new Museum of the Earth - and about his new
book, "The First 75 Years: A History of the Paleontological
Research Institution".
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